How to use these questions
Don’t send them all. Pick two or three from the groups that matter most for your business, and ask them one at a time as the conversation moves along. A lead who sends “How much for a deck?” and gets back five questions in one message often doesn’t reply at all.
A reliable order is:
- Answer what they asked, even partially.
- Ask about need, so you understand the job.
- Ask about timing, which is easy to answer and tells you how active the lead is.
- Bring up budget once you’ve given them something useful.
- Check decision-makers and logistics before you commit time to a quote or visit.
The groups follow the familiar BANT framework (budget, authority, need, timeline), reordered for chat and with logistics added, because for many service businesses location and access rule out more leads than budget does.
Adapting the wording
Rewrite each question in the way you’d actually talk. A landscaper and a law firm will phrase “What’s got you looking into this now?” very differently, and both versions are fine. Some guidelines:
- Explain why you’re asking, especially for budget and decision-maker questions. “So I can point you to the right option” turns a screening question into a helpful one.
- Use their words. If they said “my back patio,” don’t reply about “the hardscape project.”
- Offer choices. “Weekdays or weekends?” is easier to answer by text than “What’s your availability?”
- Make it easy to say not yet. People who are early in their research will tell you if you give them a comfortable way to.
Recording the answers
Qualification answers are only useful if the next person can find them. Save the key facts, such as service type, timeline, budget range and decision-maker, to fields on the contact or deal rather than leaving them buried in the thread. The glossary entries on lead qualification and custom fields explain how this fits together, and the lead management process post shows where qualification sits between first reply and a closed deal.
When a lead isn’t a fit, say so kindly and, if you can, point them somewhere better. A polite “not for us” still reflects on your business.
Tone and privacy reminders
- Don’t ask for sensitive information you don’t need to qualify a lead, such as full date of birth, Social Security numbers, payment card details or detailed health information. Chat is a poor place to collect it.
- Save access details like gate codes only once a job is booked, and only where your team can protect them.
- If a lead asks you to stop messaging, stop, and mark the contact so nobody else on the team follows up.
This isn’t legal advice; if you work in a regulated field, check with counsel about what you can collect and store.
Where AI fits
Some tools suggest qualification fields from message content. That can save typing, but treat any suggestion as a draft a person checks. inChat’s AI lead qualification is an in-development concept designed this way: it suggests, and a person confirms. You can read more in qualifying leads in chat with AI assistance.